Female Orgasm � 2 Secrets That WORK To Prime Her For An Incredible Climax!

An orgasm doesn�t have to be rocket science � with these two simple tricks, she�ll be well on her way to climax heaven (and begging for more!)
Sex Doesn�t Always Start In The Bedroom!

When a man gives his partner a great sense of sexual pleasure, he is aware of one fact that most guys don�t know: sex does not always begin in the bedroom! You should have a plan for a steamier sexual experience with your partner. You should do something beforehand to give her the best sex � and orgasms!

One great way to put your partner in a sexual mood is by giving her some kind of an intermission before the actual intimate act. Women cannot be turned on just with physical intimacy. Their minds need to be conditioned prior to the sexual intercourse. This can be done by spicing things up with a twist of romance.

There are two settings that you can use to liven up the sexual experience with your partner.
Cook Your Way Into Her Pants

You may begin by cooking a special meal while she is not yet home. Cook whatever recipe you know because even if it is not the best food that she will eat, your effort in preparing this will surely be appreciated. And, while she�s stuck in the traffic, make a path of candles and turn off all the lights in your house. Make it a candlelight dinner if you find it more appealing for your partner. Put white wine or champagne on your list of what to serve.

Just before the dessert, prepare a nice, warm bubble bath for her. Dim the lights and have candles lit around the tub. After dinner, take her to the bathroom and be the one to undress her. While you give her a bath, touch every sensitive part of her body, but do not begin your exploration with her breasts. Once she becomes in the mood for sex, you may start caressing her inner thighs.

Right after the bath, dry her up and begin with the most awaited foreplay. Not only will you prepare her physically, you will also put her into the feel of having an exhilarating moment with you � guaranteed to prime her for an amazing orgasm later.
Sexting Works Like A Charm!

If you and your partner have creativity in mind, you may take this passionate plan away from the privacy of your home. You can take her to a restaurant for dinner. Once in the restaurant, excuse yourself for some private time in the bathroom. Then call her using your cell phone, as she waits for you at the table. Tell her about your deepest and most intimate desires while on the line. This will surely please her because women are very imaginative about sexual fantasies especially with the person they go to bed with!

You may continue this sexual innuendo after dinner as you ride in the car to a secluded place. Play a sensual music in the background, something that will set the atmosphere for the two of you. Then whisper gently into her ears everything that you have planned to do to her.

Once you hear her ask for more, take her! If the car seems uncomfortable for the two of you, you may want to head to the nearest motel in town. And with the intense sexual anticipation already building up, you will certainly give her the best sex (and andclimax) ever!

5 Little Known Female Orgasme Secrets

5 Little Known Female Orgasme Secrets


The biggest mistake when it comes to �female orgasm� is focusing on the �how-to� techniques without paying proper attention to the best mind-set and strategies to make her climax.

In reality, the strategies are the key to unlocking the power of the sexual techniques.

You�ll understand that whilesexual techniques by themselves can be effective, the noisy, wet, toe-curling orgasms lie largely in the strategy you use when applying the techniques.
Mindset

Your state of mind (and your partners�) can really make or break the chances of her having an orgasm.

The Wrong Mindset

How do you approach your lover�s orgasms?

You probably enter into sex with the intent and goal of �giving an orgasm.�

It�s this approach that leads too many guys on a wild goose chase for the �perfect� strokes and techniques. It leaves you blindly seeking out every tip and trick out there, furiously testing them out on your lover.

I hate to break it to you, but this is the wrong mental approach if you truly want to �give� a female orgasm.

It sounds contradictory, I know. But it�s true, and here�s why�

When you head into the bedroom with the goal of �giving� her an orgasm, you�re setting up expectations in both of your minds. This approach will create pressure on both you and your partner that an orgasm MUST happen. Once you add pressure to have an orgasm, it is virtually guaranteed to add some negative stress and anxiety during your intimate times together.

And�as this stress grows, it will actually make it much harder for her to cum.

Have you ever seen a football or basketball player �choke up� during a game?

The fans, the crowds, the competition build up so much pressure for the athlete to perform well that their focus is diverted from the game and to their anxieties.

Ultimately, they wind up screwing up. Too much focus and drive on your part to �give� an orgasm can have the same effect on your partner.
Effects of Stress on Your Partner

If the stress and pressure get too high, she may be left unsatisfied. And because you have set this �goal� to have an orgasm in a first place, and now that the goal is un-met, both you and your partner will be left feeling disappointed.

If this approach is sustained, you may wind up anchoring these feelings of disappointment to your times of physical intimacy � carrying it over into your next sexual encounter, further increasing her �performance anxiety.�

The Right Mindset

Here�s the paradox�

If you want to give an orgasm, you have to NOT focus on the orgasm!

Instead of focusing on the goal of achieving the elusive female orgasm, start focusing your attention on the pleasure of the process.

The key is, if you focus on giving pleasure, and making sure she�s feeling good, that orgasm will come (no pun intended.)
Communication

Not every technique will work on every woman. One woman may prefer one particular stroke or rhythm more than the next woman does.

To find out what really makes your woman tick, you�ve got to open the lines of communication. You need to find out what she likes as you�re applying a technique. That way, you can optimize your rhythm, speed, stroke etc. to match what she likes best.

Aim for open verbal communication, but if your lover isn�t as brave with her words (especially when you�re face is buried between her thighs) you can opt for more non-verbal communicative methods, such as squeezing hands or body response.

Communicating well with your partner can make it much easier to bring her pleasure, and ultimately, more and better orgasms.
Escalation

One of the biggest mistake men make is moving too fast, too soon. It works fine for us, but for a woman, she might not be ready yet.

For guys, we can come to an orgasm very quickly. Men basically need to get aroused, stimulated, and we�re done.

Women, on the other hand, need a gradual escalation to come to a point of orgasm.

With each of the stages of sexual response (you�ll find out about this in an upcoming chapter), the intensity of the stimulation is increased.
Anticipation and Tension

Anticipation (otherwise known as �teasing� and �excitement�) is a powerful and effective tool to use.

In order to multiply the effects of your sexual techniques, you�ll have to add anticipation into the mix.

Anticipation will get her more aroused, give her a greater chance to have an orgasm and focuses her on the physical pleasure she�s experiencing.

And�while you�re building up anticipation, at the same time you�re cranking up sexual tension as well.

The sexual tension will have to be released (in the form of an orgasm).
The Key to Building Anticipation

The key to building up anticipation is to focus on the areas surround the main �target� before you actually hit the target.

For example, you can do this by rubbing her inner thighs, buttocks and hips before actually touching her vagina. While you�re rubbing those body parts, she�s getting wetter and wetter by the second, anticipating you to finally move onto her vagina. At the same time, the tension is growing within her and at some point, it�ll have to be released.

A note: when you�re building up the anticipation in her, it�s going to build up in you as well! It�s going to be your job to maintain self control, and keep the escalation at the right pace.
Relaxation

A woman has to be completely relaxed to have an orgasm.

If she has her thoughts on her job, self-conscious about how her body looks, trying to have an orgasm, or whatever the case may be, she�s not going to be relaxed. She�ll be tensed, and her body won�t allow her to release an orgasm.

Your job?

To help those troubles melt away and disappear (even if only temporarily) with your words, touch, attitude and preparations. Your lover must be totally and completely relaxed and free from tension.

The only tension she should be feeling is sexual tension!
Give Before You Receive

Before receiving any sexual pleasure from her, you have tomake sure she receives sexual pleasure from you first.

Why?

It shows that:

1) You have control of your sexual desires

2) She�ll be in a more �ready� state to have an orgasm while having intercourse, and

3) After she has an orgasm, she�ll be ready and willing to reciprocate to the best of her abilities!

Seriously, if you can compare the quality of the blow job she gives you, the one performed without her experiencing an orgasm FIRST, will, ironically, SUCK compared to theblowjob she gives you after she RECEIVES an orgasm.

Sex goes the same too� Go ahead and test this out for yourself if you don�t believe me!

These Are the Top-Rated Sex Toys on Amazon

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Adriana aurora      SEPTEMBER 26, 2016 3:30 PM

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When you're in the market for a fun new sex toy, narrowing down your options from all the possibilities can be daunting. Fortunately, you've got one very accessible resource to tell you what works and what doesn't: customer ratings. And Amazon has some of the most real-talk reviewers out there.

So what are Amazon customers really feeling these days? We looked through the site to see which toys are receiving the most stellar user reviews. Here are the ones that are, er, most pleasing.

1. The SVAKOM Alice 100% Waterproof Intelligent Rechargeable G-spotRabbit Vibrator

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This is the number-one sex toy on Amazon, with a solid, five-star average. The $59.99 silicon vibrator has two quiet motors with eight vibration modes, including an "intelligent mode" that reportedly "imitates the whole sex process from the foreplay to climax." One reviewer said it "hits all the right spots," and another noted that the vibrations were remarkably strong.

2. The MOJOY Multi 8 Frequency Wired Silicone Love Egg Vibrator

This little remote-controlled egg vibrator's only $17.99, and 95 percent of its reviews are five stars. Customers raved about how easy to hold and insert it is. It's also got eight vibrations, which are easy to manipulate in the dark because the remote lights up. "The lowest level was better than any of my cheaper vibrators� highest!" one reviewer wrote. "I ended up just using the lowest level to prevent too much sound, and it was bliss."

3. SVAKOM Echo Mini Rechargeable Luxury Women Face Massager

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Though this small, five-mode, $25.99 vibrator calls itself a "face massager," the description and reviews suggest it's being used forother purposes. "This vibrator is curved at just the right angle to stimulate the clit," one reviewer wrote. Another said the tip was "great for staying on the clitoris and helping to maintain that direct pinpoint stimulation."

4. 3PCS Anal Plug Set

If you're curious about anal play, this set gives you a few places to start. It's made with 100 percent medical grade silicone for easy insertion and has three different sizes so you can start small if the larger ones intimidate you. "I was nervous about it, but the sizes are totally doable for beginners," one reviewer wrote.

5. SVAKOM Siime Eye Rechargeable Waterproof Intelligent Multi-speed Wireless App-controlledCamera Vibrator

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Well, this is interesting. This vibrator contains a little camera that lets you "know the subtle changes inside of your private areas" and "record and share the wonderful sex adventure to your partner via pictures or videos." It's also got SVAKOM's "intelligent mode" to take you on a realistic journey. It's pricier than the others�$117.99�but that's not too shabby for the chance to spy on the inside of your vagina.

6. Utimi Silicone Cock Ring

If you're looking for more clitoral stimulation during sex, this one might be for you. It stretches around a guy's penis and vibrates right above it, where it touches your clit. Customers liked the stretchiness, which keeps it from being uncomfortable, and the convenient position of the stimulator.

7. The Utimi Silicone Rechargeable 10-speed Vibrating G-spot Stimulation Vibrator

This dual-motor vibrator goes 3.5 inches into the vagina and vibrates quietly with three speeds and seven modes. Reviewers loved that you can charge it instead of replacing batteries. One called it "very smooth for easy penetration with or without lube."

Of course, Amazon ratings are just one measure of a toy's quality, and an imperfect one at that. To learn what experts are recommending, take a look at our list of sex toys for beginners.

The Ocean of Sorrow

The Ocean of Sorrow

In the afternoon, a beautiful girl with a red hooded named Aisha looked sad on the seashore. She was sitting in the dock and kept looking at the blue ocean. The waves came crashing her feet but did not make her moved to another place. The shore of wind which blew till stabbed her bone did not make her eyes diverted to ocean.

That day, the sky was cloudless. She kept looking at the blue sea till the horizon began to return. She saw the fishermen who were getting back from the sea and bringing fishes quite a lot. The fishermen were greeted by their family who had been waiting for them at the edge of the ocean. Seeing something very emotional there, her tears soaked her cheeks. She thought of his family who had gone and left her alone.




That girl hated the sea because that�s where her family lost and died. It happened about 4 months ago when the ship that brought them from across the island was on fire and sank in the ocean. All her family died and lost including her mother, father, and brother. However, Aisha survived from the accident.

Until now, Aisha always comes to the beach every day to look at the ocean because from that place, she could remember her beloved family and remember the happy memories that they went through together. Her tears were rolling down her cheeks until the sun disappeared entirely behind the ocean.

The Real Story of Pinocchio

The Real Story of Pinocchio

Once upon a time, Gepetto, an old woodsman, living in the great Italian pine forest, was lonely. He always dreamed about having a son.

Each day, he went cutting woods for the town�s people. One day, an idea illuminated his mind, the idea of crafting a puppet, which he will call it Pinocchio. He crafted that puppet and during the night, the puppet becomes alive!

One year of happiness and thriller passed, on a Sunday morning, Gepetto told Pinocchio:

��It�s my birthday soon, my little son! I hope you didn�t forget it!��

��Euh, sure, I didn�t!��

Pinocchio felt awkward. He didn�t thought about that. Gepetto�s birthday was coming in only three days, and he hadn�t even a present.

After a long night of reflecting, Pinocchio finally decided to offer a homemade chocolate cake to him as a present.

When the sun rose, Pinocchio was already ready to go outside find the ingredients. The main problem was he didn�t even known the in and the recipe.

So after school, he decided to go ask someone for the ingredients to bake a cake. During his walk, Pinocchio, the wooden puppet, met the town�s sorcerer.
��Hey, little boy, do you need some help for your chocolate cake?��

��Hum�You can help me?��, asked Pinocchio.

��Sure, I can. Follow me!��

After walking few minutes so, Pinocchio saw a big, big, big candy house. They entered together and Pinocchio got caught by a big cage.

��Mouahahaha!!! I finally caught you! You�ll be mine, you�re gonna work for me!��, said the evil sorcerer.

Pinocchio was so scared. When the guards came and took him out of the cage, he immediately ran away very fast and he succeeded to escape.

At the same time, the evil sorcerer, calling all his troops with him, ran after him and he took out his magic wand. The evil devil changed the little wooden puppet into a chocolate cake!

When he came back home, he told the entire story to his father and they went to find the god fairy.

After a long trip, they finally find the god fairy and they got the magical potion for Pinocchio.

So remember how I was asking for help dealing with my epic TBR pileearlier in the week? Well, while I was culling some books, I plucked this one off my shelf and read the back. It sounded funny, and I was in the mood for that, so I figured I'd give it a try. I guarantee this book has been on my shelf for at least three years. A while back I bought two "grab bag" boxes of romances from the used book store, and this was one of those in the mix.

And see, this is EXACTLY why I have trouble getting rid of TBR books even when they've been languishing on my shelves for years. Because I KNOW that there are some gems on those shelves and I don't want to miss out on them. (Yes, I have major FOMO over books.) But anyway, Sex, Lies, and Online Dating by Rachel Gibson proved the point and will now make me even more paranoid about donating books I haven't read.

So, let's get to the book. First, the back cover summary, which has a bit more of a chick-litty feel than the actual book, so take that with a grain of salt:

Sex . . .

What is it about men anyway? Bad cars, bad jobs, even bad teeth�nothing convinces them that they can't snare a Size Two Babe with a D-cup chest. And after way too many internet dates with men named "luvstick" and "bigdaddy182," Lucy Rothschild should know.

Lies . . .

But sitting across from her now is "hardluvnman," and he seems different�sensitive, honest, and hot! He says he's a plumber, while Lucy claims she's a nurse! She's really a mystery writer, dating online while researching her next book. Hey, everyone lies a little, don't they?

And Online Dating . . .

But Quinn's really an undercover cop hunting down a serial killer, and he sees Lucy as his top suspect. And while he could really go for this smart, sexy woman with the killer bod�if that's the only thing "killer" about her�he knows he needs to wine and dine her and discover the truth. Hey, he realizes the dating scene can be deadly�but this is ridiculous!

Okay, so first, this is a series following four writer friends, each getting their own book. Obviously, I'm a writer, and I have a group of writer friends who I'm very close to. So this was ridiculously relatable. Almost freakishly so at points, lol. I actually texted my friend Dawn mid-read and was like--go get this book right now.

But besides that, why did I love it? Well, this story is funny and sexy with a great voice (and I'm a junkie for a good voice.) Plus, after picking up a few books lately that I couldn't get into and worrying that it was me or my mood, this one instantly hooked me. Now, fair warning, some of the references are outdated since I think this was released in the mid-2000s. (Hero wears button fly jeans which made me snicker. And there are lots of references to high end brands, which makes me think of Sex in the City chick lit.) But it wasn't a distracting amount of dated stuff. Also, this has a suspense element to it, but it's very solidly contemporary romance. The focus is on the couple and their developing relationship.

I'm not going to go into a detailed plot synopsis because you can get the gist in the back cover summary, but the reason I'm recommending it is because it's hard to find books that pull off humor well, while still being romantic and sexy. This one does. I laughed aloud multiple times and still got the payoff of a great, sexy romance. If you're looking for a lot of angst and emotional backstory, this is not the one for you. But sometimes it's nice to read something light-hearted and fun with characters who could be your friends.

Now I'm going to have to track down the remaining books in the series and add MORE to my TBR pile. It's an endless cycle, people.

Mermaid Love Story

Mermaid Love Story

Ariel is a mermaid , her 16 -year -old who is very interested in the human world . His hobby is collecting items from the shipwreck man with his best friend , Flounder . His father , King Triton , considers dangerous human world . The King often prohibit and scolding Ariel toying with the human world for fear of being caught by the hook Ariel humans . King Triton loves Ariel , youngest daughter . Ariel also had a friend , Scuttle , the seagull bird she is often questioned by Ariel about human goods . Ariel has a very beautiful voice , he just lazy practice . Sebastian ( the crab ) be a faithful friend Ariel .

One time , Ariel saw ship - skelter because of the storm . There is someone who falls off the boat and drowning . Ariel rush to save man . He is Prince Eric . Ariel sing a song because he fell in love with Eric and Eric was still unconscious before Ariel back into the sea . In the dream , there was a woman who saved Eric and bernanyi , Eric fell in love with her .

Ariel realized she would not be able to live with Eric , if he continues to be a mermaid . Ariel then meet Ursula , the sea witch . They negotiate and obtain end , Ariel and Ursula got legs get Ariel's voice . Condition is Ariel to kiss Eric before sunset on the third day for men can be forever and if it fails , Ariel will go back into a mermaid without noise .

The next morning , Ariel washed up on the beach and found the royal guard Eric . They bring Ariel into the kingdom . Ariel establish a good relationship with Eric , including eating together , city streets and paddle boat together . When they almost kiss , pet eel Ursula dropped their boat . Ursula also transform itself into a beautiful girl with the voice of Ariel , named Vanessa . But Ariel mute that saves Eric because he did not swim .

The next night , Eric has decided to forgo her voice and loves Ariel Ariel silent . But , Ursula did not remain silent , he returned disguised as Vanessa . Eric was enchanted . The next day , Vanessa asks Eric to marry . Eric agreed .

Ariel is very sad . Scuttle know that Vanessa is Ursula in disguise . Ariel and her friends tried to prevent the marriage . Max , the dog Eric , breaking shells containing Ariel's voice is used Ursula . Eric also realized that he was bewitched by Ursula and Ariel was able to speak again . " Vanessa is Ursula . " Cried Ariel .

Ursula is furious , fascinating sea to Ariel . The sun nearly set and the time is running out . Ursula also brought Eric to the seabed , because Ursula knew Ariel would save him . Sunsets and Ariel back into a mermaid . Triton and helps Ariel came in the face of Ursula . Akhrinya Ursula was defeated .

Triton realizes that her daughter really loves Eric . Ariel was transformed into a human being again . They were married on the ship while sailing . The mermaid dared to come to the surface ocean to celebrate the wedding of Ariel .